Why Older Men Should Date Young Women Now

It’s The Perfect Storm

Right now, the stars have aligned to make this the perfect time for men age 45-65 to date and pursue long-term relationships with younger women. Much younger women.

Why is this so you ask?

Several factors have contributed to this recent phenomenon.

1. Men are living longer so having a healthy mate to play with now and care for you later is important
2. Men are earning longer meaning they can and wish to travel more, do more, and entertain more
3. Men are staying healthier longer and desire a younger mate to be active with
4. Gen-Z and Millenial Women (age 18-30) are lonelier than ever
5. There is an extraordinary number (millions) of these lonely younger women available
6. Lonely women are more open to non-traditional relationships
7. Society is becoming more accepting of “non-traditional” relationships

Common Myth: Guys and Girls are attracted for the same reasons.

No: Guys are attracted to girls first and foremost by appearance. They justify that attraction later and decide whether or not to stay in a relationship based on all other factors such as personality and common interests.

Girls on the other hand are attracted first and foremost to personality traits such as confidence, humor, social intelligence. Once they have established a liking for the guy based on these factors, they will then find the attractiveness in the man even if he short, fat, bald, ugly, old or whatever. Similar to how all mothers find their babies attractive, even if the rest of the world does not.

This is a simplification, of course. But the primary mission of this article is for men to put away the idea (the excuse) that some physical trait or lack thereof they possess is THE reason they can’t find a woman to love them.

It’s all about personality dude. Get that right, and the other physical factors become irrelevant.

Women aren’t like us. They value substance higher than “looks”.

So then, you don’t have to be the handsome man, or the strong man, or the fit man, or the hairy man, or the younger man.

You can be exactly opposite all that and still attract the girl of your dreams. Or at least A girl.

Please, don’t just trust me on this. Go to all the dating advice sights and you’ll convince yourself, though it may cost you some coin to do so. You could just look around too. Haven’t you ever said, “What’s that hot girl doing with that slob?” Sure you have.

Listen, in my humble, but accurate opinion, why give yourself
excuses anyway why someone MAY not like you? Just assume everyone does and go forth from there.

‘nuf said. Looks don’t matter, period. Personality does.

Now that we’ve hopefully gotten the physical excuses out of the way, let’s get on to why NOW is the perfect time to search for and attract a much younger woman, shall we?

Younger women, Gen-Z (age 18-22) and Millennials (age 23-30) find themselves in a pickle…

Despite connective technologies like the internet, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram and a host of other lesser known places to connect with people at home and around the world, these women are feeling LESS connected than ever.

Scientific studies have shown 30% of the 75 million people in this age group (men and women 18-30) report feeling lonely.

If approximately half are female, say 37 million, and 30% are lonely, that means there are 10 million lonely young women out there desperate to relieve their loneliness.

That’s where you come in dude!

Not that you need this new phenomenon, except that your confidence betrays you, but this current loneliness trend has definitely tossed you a bone. (no pun intended).

You see, you could have success approaching these women on your own anytime. You always could have.

But you were scared to because you EXPECTED they would turn you down. That’s anti-confident. Very unappealing to women.

But now, the odds are 1 in 3 that the woman you approach is profoundly lonely and far more receptive to having someone, anyone, (YOU) be their mate.

You may easily, but wrongly infer that I’m saying, “they’ll settle for you”.

But no. That’s your sad lack of confidence talking again.

Older guys have always had so much to offer these women. Stability, security, maturity, and usually a better financial situation. They just didn’t understand that women value these qualities highly, whereas men value looks.

Women are different from men. They’re from Venus remember? We’re from Mars.

See, women mature faster than men. (as if men ever mature!)

So when you see a pretty girl running around with the handsome frat boy, she has actually settled in that situation for an immature, broke-ass, drunk, stoner loser.

Men age 18-30 are at the lowest salary ranges and have little in terms of savings as well.

Older men have passed this point in their lives and are at the top of the earnings game and often have significant savings.

This is very attractive to a woman who wants to have a nice home, a newer car and the means to start a family. Especially if she can be well enough off to stay home and care for the baby.

There are so many reasons she’d much rather have you now. If you’d ask her!

Previously, there were these societal norms (stereotypes) in play.

“Older men are not supposed to date young girls. Young girls are not supposed to date men their father’s age.”

Hogwash! (Elder’s word not mine!)

There are no biological factors that designate who should fall in love with whom. It just happens. It happens between two men, two women, a man and a woman, two religions, two skin colors, two ethnicities, two body sizes, two attractiveness levels, whatever.

People should be allowed to fall in love for their own reasons regardless of societal biases.

And they do. And you can too. Through efforts of the LGBQT, society is becoming much more comfortable with diversity.

For older men who have always dreamed of courting a younger woman, the stars have very recently aligned my dude.

Younger women dig older guys. Younger women are more lonely than any previous point in history.

Go forth into that sea with confidence my dude. Be a gentleman always. Play nice.

There’s a catch just waiting to jump into your net.

Cast it wide and often and you will prosper.

“Bene Vivere!”

ElderBob Schwarztrauber